Arm Yourself Against Gaslighting and Imposter Syndrome

Arm Yourself Against Gaslighting and Imposter Syndrome

On a freezing December night in Georgia, my girlfriends and I had the conversation women have when they’re done pretending – we talked about how we struggle to own our hard work. One woman who’s in the middle of divorce proceedings, told us she’s been reflecting...
10 Commitments of Ally Leaders

10 Commitments of Ally Leaders

**I selected the photo for this blog in honor of every woman, particularly women-of-color, who has been constantly asked to be less than who they truly are. 1. We are unwaveringly committed to every human being’s birthright: to own their agency and be seen and...
The Ally Leadership Framework

The Ally Leadership Framework

I’m working on refining my thoughts and language around my Ally Leadership Framework. In this post, I’ve expanded on how Ally Leadership works as a leadership framework in the work environment, and, really, any structured environment where we find ourselves. My most...
Job Search Sucks

Job Search Sucks

Job search sucks. There, I said it out loud. It particularly sucks for women. The longer I work with women, the more I see how the system blocks them from owning their accomplishments, their voices, their power, and their value. How do you find a great opportunity...
Break the Chains

Break the Chains

Recently, I’ve had the opportunity to work with two women, one a new acquaintance and one a long-time client, as they grapple with owning and claiming their full power and the power of their work. They shared a common problem with all of the women I work with –...
I’ve Never Recovered from COVID

I’ve Never Recovered from COVID

I’ve never recovered from COVID. I figured it out the other day as I found myself crying over our most recent book club selection: Wish You Were Here by Jodi Picoult. It’s a novel about COVID times. About all of COVID times, the uncertainty about the disease, the...